A)- How important is Islam in your life?
– What do you expect from your wife?
– Waht will your role as a husband be?

2. What are the three most important qualities you look for in a partner?

A) – Pracitising Islam correctly, no innovations, and follows the deen.
– Respects all women.
– a good teacher for his wife and kids

3. What is your marriage deal breaker?

– a brother who is a womanizer… who has female friends, flirts with women and genreally socialises with them (Online, phone, work etc everythink).

when the guy asked for an emotionally detached marriage i.e. marriage of convenience i bolted. btw, we met on our own, he pursued me and atleast i thought we liked each other.

so 3 qs about marriage
1. what do you believe forms the foundation of an ideal marriage?
2. do you believe marriage is ibadah? if so why and how?
3. what would cause you to go back on your commitment?

3 qualities i’d look for in a partner
1. commitment
2. best friend
3. God consciousness

- Will you make Islam #1 when it comes to raising our children? How often do you plan on being there for your children? Do you plan on teaching our children about their religion or will you send them to a religious school?

- How do you feel about secular education, working women, and living in the West? Are you willing to take my opinions and viewpoints into consideration when making decisions that affect us?

- Where do you want to make your permanent home with me? How do you feel about me? My family? My friends?

*apologies in advance for going over the 3 question limit, I couldn’t resist.

2. What are the three most important qualities you look for in a partner?

- Honesty
- Balance (e.g. he must be serious when need be, and funny when need be)
- Hard Working

3. What is your marriage deal breaker?

- Dishonesty. I can’t stand being lied to.