Comments on: Are babies the joy of life, or life-ruiners? http://sliceoflemon.com/2009/06/09/are-babies-the-joy-of-life-or-life-ruiners/ Mon, 21 May 2012 16:50:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Lady Sanders http://sliceoflemon.com/2009/06/09/are-babies-the-joy-of-life-or-life-ruiners/comment-page-1/#comment-1459 Lady Sanders Sun, 21 Jun 2009 19:58:02 +0000 http://sliceoflemon.com/?p=3720#comment-1459 Hi, I had to comment, I so agree with some people up there, but had to add 2 more pennies to the pot. I've been married err... almost 2 years now. I grew up with 5 younger siblings ranging between 2 and 21 years YOUNGER than me, so I've dealt with a broad spectrum of children. My sister had my first niece 3 months after my wedding and since we live together, I've been around every step of the way of my nieces growth. Right now, I DO NOT want children. I want a better life than I grew up with, I want to be prepared inshaAllah to raise them properly in a way that I think they should be. None of that can be guaranteed of course, because man Plans and Allah plans and Allah is the best of planners. But anyway, sometimes I wonder what we are gathering all this material wealth for if not to share it. I want to finish my comment but I've gotta run BRB :) Hi, I had to comment, I so agree with some people up there, but had to add 2 more pennies to the pot.
I’ve been married err… almost 2 years now. I grew up with 5 younger siblings ranging between 2 and 21 years YOUNGER than me, so I’ve dealt with a broad spectrum of children. My sister had my first niece 3 months after my wedding and since we live together, I’ve been around every step of the way of my nieces growth.
Right now, I DO NOT want children. I want a better life than I grew up with, I want to be prepared inshaAllah to raise them properly in a way that I think they should be. None of that can be guaranteed of course, because man Plans and Allah plans and Allah is the best of planners.
But anyway, sometimes I wonder what we are gathering all this material wealth for if not to share it.

I want to finish my comment but I’ve gotta run BRB :)

]]> By: ms. mango http://sliceoflemon.com/2009/06/09/are-babies-the-joy-of-life-or-life-ruiners/comment-page-1/#comment-1377 ms. mango Sun, 14 Jun 2009 22:07:14 +0000 http://sliceoflemon.com/?p=3720#comment-1377 Well... the world is over populated... having said that i think ZERO growth is better then just having no children. Have 2 children one to replace each of you.. if everyone did this the population would not be so out of control..and honestly some people just should not breed at all... Well… the world is over populated… having said that i think ZERO growth is better then just having no children. Have 2 children one to replace each of you.. if everyone did this the population would not be so out of control..and honestly some people just should not breed at all…

]]> By: axy http://sliceoflemon.com/2009/06/09/are-babies-the-joy-of-life-or-life-ruiners/comment-page-1/#comment-1358 axy Fri, 12 Jun 2009 20:28:06 +0000 http://sliceoflemon.com/?p=3720#comment-1358 i think alotta those thins depend on ur own experiences of stuff as well as ur own belief in urself n ur partner im muslim, but honestly, i really do think that ill be pretty hapy if i dont get married and if i do it probli wont work out etc...iv been surrounded by broken marriages n the fault is in many things...so basiclly not a grt fan of it but kids on the other hand hv turned out okay frm the single parents iv seen...n if i cud hv kids without the hubby id totally do that!! dont get me wrng i actually get on guys better thn girls most of the time, but the whole marriage thing is just crazy so neway i knw ur not tlkin of marriage here, but i think its the same with kids....if i thought hvin kids wud screw them up and me thn i probabli wudnt wnt to hv em i do get it....but wat i dont get is when u hv ppl who refuse to hv kids but then adopt monkeys/cabbage kids/fake plastic dolls etc n treat thm like a kid!! i think alotta those thins depend on ur own experiences of stuff as well as ur own belief in urself n ur partner

im muslim, but honestly, i really do think that ill be pretty hapy if i dont get married and if i do it probli wont work out etc…iv been surrounded by broken marriages n the fault is in many things…so basiclly not a grt fan of it

but kids on the other hand hv turned out okay frm the single parents iv seen…n if i cud hv kids without the hubby id totally do that!!

dont get me wrng i actually get on guys better thn girls most of the time, but the whole marriage thing is just crazy

so neway i knw ur not tlkin of marriage here, but i think its the same with kids….if i thought hvin kids wud screw them up and me thn i probabli wudnt wnt to hv em

i do get it….but wat i dont get is when u hv ppl who refuse to hv kids but then adopt monkeys/cabbage kids/fake plastic dolls etc n treat thm like a kid!!

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